What it's like to be the baby in the family

It’s said that being the oldest in the family comes with much freedom and responsibility. I’ve always wondered what that’s like because I come from a family where I am the youngest of four. Being the youngest of four has many advantages and disadvantages. One of the best things I’ve gotten from my siblings is that I can observe the mistakes they’ve made and learn from them. I know what buttons not to push and how to go about situations.

As well as learning from my siblings mistakes, I’ve also gained a few more advantages. Even though my siblings and I aren’t very close in age, they have my back and I can look up to them for help or advice. My oldest sister, for example, has always been somewhat of a leader. If I’m stressed about a test or about writing an essay, she is someone I can go to for advice.

Although I’ve attained many positive advantages from my siblings, there are also disadvantages that I’ve stumbled upon. Siblings are known to argue and tease each other. When I was younger, my brother and I fought almost everyday. He saw me as an easy target to make fun of and he could blame me for things I didn't do. I was also very gullible and both of my siblings could take advantage of that.

Another big disadvantage I face is comparing myself to my siblings. I’ve always been very strong with athletics, especially soccer, whereas my siblings are highly intelligent. I often compare my achievements to theirs and worry if I will ever be as smart as they are. As well, I generally worry if my parents are comparing me too my siblings and if I will ever be good enough to meet their standards.

Even though I haven't always loved being the youngest, I wouldn't think of changing my situation. I've learned from my siblings mistakes and I can always look up to them for support, even when they try to tease me. My siblings have helped me become more mature and have made me the person I am today.